Have you ever felt drawn to a culture so different from your own that it almost feels like stepping into another world?
As a child, I was endlessly fascinated by cultures outside of my own. I found myself especially captivated by Asian cultures, there was something about their traditions, clothing, storytelling, and spirituality that felt mysterious and deeply enriching. Compared to the Western environment I grew up in, everything about the East seemed layered with meaning, ritual, and calm wisdom. I remember being curious about everything from the way they dressed to the food they ate, and the philosophies that shaped how they lived their lives.
As life went on, though, like many people, I got caught up in studies, work, and responsibilities. That deep curiosity never disappeared, but it was quietly put on the back burner. Now, however, I'm fortunate to have a remote job, which gives me the flexibility to travel and live abroad. And that same childhood spark has come back stronger than ever.
I've been thinking seriously about spending a few months in Asia, particularly in Japan and South Korea, to experience their cultures firsthand. Both countries have always stood out to me for different reasons: Japan for its blend of ancient tradition and ultra-modern life, and Korea for its vibrant pop culture, food scene, and strong sense of community. I want to go beyond reading about them; I want to see the temples, walk the streets, eat the food, and learn from the people themselves.
Of course, one of my biggest questions right now is about language. Would English be enough to get by, or would I need to learn Japanese or Korean to truly immerse myself? I’ve heard Japanese is one of the most challenging languages to learn, especially for English speakers, and that’s a bit intimidating. But I don’t mind putting in the effort to learn, especially if it opens doors to deeper conversations and more authentic experiences. I know that language is often the bridge to understanding a culture on a deeper level.
So I’d love to hear from those who’ve been to Japan or Korea, or anyone who’s made the leap to explore a culture deeply different from their own. Was language a major barrier for you? Did you find that locals understood or spoke English, or was it better to learn at least the basics of the local language? And if you’ve lived there, what was it really like day-to-day?
I'm ready to embrace the adventure, and I’d love to hear your thoughts or advice before I take the leap.